Ease Sibling Rivalry

I recently had the pleasure of speaking to a family about how they deal with sibling conflicts. The family wanted me to share that the brother and sister came up with a plan to grab a snack and sit on the couch to "talk it out". I think it's great that they've found their own way to a peaceful discussion. Maybe a plan like that, or your own unique ritual, will help your children manage conflicts not just now but throughout adulthood.

Their story inspired me to share a few tips to help ease sibling rivalry:

1) Have a family meeting to discuss how you are all a team. 

2) Emphasize empathy to help your child understand his/her siblings's experiences.

3) Use a reward system to reinforce positive interactions and teamwork between siblings.

Look for ways to lead by example and give positive feedback whenever possible. The more good experiences they have with one another, the better they will relate.

Be happy, be healthy!

Aysha Hagene, LCPC

www.simplycounseling.com